On the eve of Gurupurab, the Prakash
Utsav of Guru Ravidass (February 25, 2013), I intend to write on the historical
place – SatGuru Ravidass Dham Bootan Mandi Jalandhar with which my cherished
memories are associated as a kid, a primary student, my formative years of
youth before I graduated into adult life and above all being a small and humble
son of an ordinary family belonging to Bootan Mandi. After about 40 years long
diplomatic career, I am back to my roots in Jalandhar and wish to pick up the
threads to integrate with the family and the society at large. SatGuru Ravidass
Dham is said to be the nerve centre of the activities related and pertaining to
the dalit community around particularly in the doaba region and foreign
countries where the followers of Guru Ravidass live in considerable strength. The
Prakash Utsav of Guru Ravidass is being celebrated with traditional and
dedicated fervor in Bootan Mandi since long even before the advent of Ad-dharam
Mandal in 1926. By now, over the years, Guru Ravidass Gurupurab has attained
the status of a big social and spiritual event in the city of Jalandhar and
rightly so. Before I come to the subject, I take this opportunity to greet and
congratulate the followers of the great Guru Ravidass and particularly my
fellow Bootan Mandians on the Gurupurab Guru Ravidass .
Gurudwara built sometime in 1930s,
where SatGuru Ravidass Dham now stands, was a prominent place in the history of
dalit community in the area. It was a magnificent building of the time. The
Bootan Mandi’s prominents under the stewardship of Seth Khushi Ram and
supported by others including Seth Mathra Dass, Seth
Kartar Chand, Seth Mool Raj, with a view to provide primary education
facilities to the children of Bootan Mandi and the adjoining localities,
established a primary school at the Gurudwara premises sometime in early 1950s.
Later the school was handed over to the Government but maintenance and upkeep
of the building remained the responsibility of the Gurudwara Management. I
remember in the mid 1960s, when I was actively involved in the community
matters as an upcoming youngman, we under took the major renovation of the
Gurudwara under the leadership of Hardial Banger, Manohar Mahey, Sat Paul
Mahey, Prem Shant,Hans Raj Banchi, Darshan Bodhi and many more. Pritam
Ramdaspuri, Seth Durga Dass, inter alia, stood by us as seniors and supporters.
We even started a small library and a reading room at the premises. I recall,
how with great efforts, we could manage to get 5 daily papers free of cost from
the Jalandhar Municipal Committee through the Committee Member from Bhargo Camp
Bhagat Budda Mal. A Youngman whose was Chaman Lal, if I remember correctly, was
a great help in the day to day affairs of the library particularly its upkeep. Along
with these allied activities, the Gurudwara premises were the venue of
Gurupurab celebrations every successive year. For almost a week before the Guru
Ravidass Gurupurab, the place will become the centre of spiritual discourse and
recital of guruvani in the hazuri (presence) of Shri Guru Granth Sahib under
the hands of Swami Lalji Dass and his dedicated followers. Our finances used to
be small and meager but personal devotion of all dedicated young men involved
in the process kept us going. The hard work of the young band of dedicated
workers made the activities and events under the banner Guru Ravidass Youth
Club increasing established and recognized by the society at large. I recall my
submission of annual report of the Club in writing at the Gurupurab Kavi Darbar
in 1969 as General Secretary of the Club. Prem Shant was a great help in the
matter. We started publishing a souvenir ‘Guru Sandesh’ on the Gurupurab. We
got printed greeting cards and sold to wish each other on the Gurupurab. We
used to motivate the daily newspapers of Jalandhar and supply the requisite
material to them for the Special Supplements on the occasion. We tried our
every best to enlarge the scope and relevance of the Sobha Yatra (called
Jalloos earlier) by engaging the public at large and decorate the entire route
of the Yatra which was not an easy task in the 1960s. To cut the story short,
let me say with satisfaction that things were put on rail in the right
direction. I left the scene in March 1970 in pursuit of my career and bread and
butter. Our successors along with some of my old associates did a good job in
the following years but could not keep the tempo of the activities. The
procedural content like the annual report, souvenir, and special supplements
became things of the past. It was not good for the system and the institution.
It is a matter of regret. A dedicated team under the leadership of Seth Ram Lal
Mahey, I was told, contributed a great deal particularly in constructing new
buildings for the primary and high schools in the vicinity of the Gurudwara (now
Dham) and handed over these buildings to the Government. Frankly I did not like
it. It would have been better, to my mind, if we run the schools as private
institutions like many other communities do and provide not only quality
education to our children at affordable costs but also inculcate the mission
and philosophy of the great Guru Ravidass in the minds of coming generations.
We have certainly arrived but were yet to reach our destination.
With the blessings of Guru Ravidassji
and sheer hard work of some of the young men of Bootan Mandi like Seth Sat
Paul, Surinder Mahey, Hussan Mahey, Kamal Mahey, Harish Mahey, with their
seniors like Seth Ram Paul Mahey, Ram Saran Mahey, Seth Bhagwan Dass
around, progressed and established
themselves in their leather business. The finances of the social and community
activities improved considerably. They floated yet another outfit, to replace
the erstwhile Club, in the name of Guru Ravidass Welfare Society in the early
1980s. The name was further changed around early 1990s, in view of the
educational aspects particularly the schools mentioned earlier. The Society was
converted into Guru Ravidass Educational and Charitable Trust, the current
parent body of the Satguru Ravidass Dham. So far so good. The community got
economic and financial muscle on one hand and political strength on the other. Surinder
Mahey, a young man of Bootan Mandi, became the Mayor of Jalandhar city in around
2002. It was a big attainment and rightly so. While doing a good job as the
Mayor of Jalandhar, Surinder Mahey also paid little more and focused attention
to the development and improvement of Bootan Mandi which was a slum area. He
planned and developed a good park and named it after Dr. B.R. Ambedkar. He took yet another important work in his
hands that is the construction of Satguru Ravidass Dham at the site of the
historic gurudwara under the aegis of Satguru Ravidass Dham Management
Committee. It was, of course, an ambitious but prestigious project which needed
huge investments. Bootan Mandi being the hub of community activities,
everybody, I understand, appreciated and joined hands to do the project. The
young entrepreneurs of Bootan Mandi rallied around Surinder Mahey for the
completion of the Dham including generous support from the dalit community
living in foreign lands. My brothers, Krishan Lal and Paramjit, humbly but
fully engaged and identified themselves these activities. Paramjit remained for
a long time one of the Trustees and Member of the Guru Ravidass Educational and
Charitable Trust and Satguru Ravidass Dham Management Committee and also the
General Secretary of the Trust for a couple of terms. With the due financial
and political support under the leadership of Surinder Mahey, the Dham project
progressed satisfactorily for a few years. Obviously, authority entails
responsibility. The power tends to inflate ego. In the process, as I understand
Surinder Mahey, may be unintentionally, ruffled feathers of some of his
associates and kith and kin in the extended family. As his term as Mayor of the
city came to close in around 2008, the opponents who were lying low, started
exerting themselves with or without reason. Some of them started opposing and
confronting the authority of Surinder to settle their personal scores
pertaining to family matters most of the time. The spoils office came to
surface and over took the situation. Those who enjoyed the power when Surinder
Mahey was the Mayor started drifting away for personal reasons. With the support of political rivals of
Surinder Mahey, the so called aggrieved faction hijacked the agenda for their
limited purposes. It was unfortunate for
the Dham project, progress of which is almost stalled by now. Unfortunately,
things have gone from bad to worse under the current Management of the Dham. Nobody
is ready to see reason. The saner sense is missing holding the whole community
to ransom. I am absolutely pained to write this. It is rightly said: लह्मों की गलती से, सदिओं ने सज्जा पाई !
I am around for the last two years
and this Gurupurab is the third successive year of witnessing a sorry state of
affairs. We are a divided lot. I was told that Shri Avinash Chander, Chief
Parliamentary Secretary of Punjab who also belonged to Bootan Mandi tried to
bring the barring factions of Surinder Mahey and Seth Sat Paul Mall together to
celebrate the Gurupurab to begin with and revive the neglected Dham project in
due course. Surinder Mahey, I understand, was willing to come down in the
larger interest of the Dham and the community but Seth Paul Mall could not
gather courage and bring along his close associates to agree to some sort of
settlement and compromise. The sincere approach is lacking, I feel. The leaders
are more interested in settling their personal scores totally ignoring the
common agenda of the community.The status quo ante, with displaced egos, stands
to the detriment of the community interests. Some so called ‘Well Wishers’
wrote to me an anonymous letter and urged me to refrain from associating myself
with Surinder Mahey. It is their assumed notion that I along with my brothers
tend to support Surinder Mahey as against the wishes of the other faction. This
assumption is baseless and ill founded. I refute it vehemently. I along with my
brothers stand for the community and the Dham and not with any faction who so
ever they may be. Let me make it clear. The ‘Well Wishers” also wrote that I
should do something to bridge the gap between the two groups. With a view to
register my sincerity of purpose, I immediately got in touch with prominent and
eminent members of both the groups and suggested my ideas of bringing them
along and strengthening the hands of Shri Avinash Chander in his efforts
towards unity. But I am sorry to say with a heavy heart that my friends in Seth
Sat Paul group did not respond positively and tried to downplay the issue and
friends in the other group were at least open to sitting on the table and
coming together with dignity and respect. It is a hopeless situation. The high
pedestal of Bootan Mandi is slipping from under its feet. Some of the short
sighted sons of Bootan Mandi itself are responsible for this situation which is
unfortunate and unacceptable . May Guru Ravidass help us and show light. I
close with a poetic expression –
बिश्डों को फिर मिला दें नक्शे दुई मिटा दें!
सुंनी पड़ी हुई है मुद्दत से दिल की बस्ती,
आ इक नया रविअलय इस देश में बना दें !
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ReplyDeletedear mr. ramesh chander ji, you've very impartially,judicially and candidly elaborated in chornological order, the different events and developments, that took place in bootan mandi in the past, to the present situation. As a bootan mandian i thank you for making me aware of many past events that i was unaware of. In your above article you've given deserving respect to all the persons you mentioned. I'm very thankful to you and your family,especially to your younger brother mr. paramjit mahey, for putting enormous efforts to bring peace and harmony among two groups. As a young bootan mandian i feel concerned and wish for peace and harmony in bootan mandi and wish for a more educated and prosperous bootan mandi.
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ReplyDeleteYou have written nice article on Bootan Mandi Dham, But i dont know i feel you are taking the side of Ex-Mayor, so i think to serve a community or Dham, you no need to be president of the organisation. A normal person who visit dham for prayer is also as much contributing as much presidents or other has contributed. so if someone is removed from the president ship he should not start its own organisation but should keep on contributing as a normal person( without the title of president ship). what he is doing, shows that they are more interested to become president rather than contributing to dham. The money collected by Ex-mayor to do his own function could have been utilized to complete the construction of dham. I think if he has given all the money he collected to dham, instead of spending to organize his own function, would have been better.
lets suppose tomarrow some one from seth satpal malls side is removed from his post and he starts its on function, according to you will it be right or wrong, if your answer is that it will be wrowng, so what ex-mayor is doing also wrong
with Regards
Danesh Banger
thanks danesh. i am happy to see your comments as it has given me an opportunity to explain and tell my mind little further. first, i may makeit clear that my intension is not to take sides. if this is the impression i refute it whole heartedly.
Deleteyou are absolutely correct that leadership shall not be the issue but unfortunately it is on both sideswhich is not good. In addition, to my mind, the dispute is not on the dham but it is between/among the families of traditional seths and somewhat new seths. a common man like me has nothing to do with this. we are interested in the dham.
as i mentioned in my blog, some well wishers wrote to me and took the initiative to bring the factions together by speaking to sat paul mahey and bhagwan dass. i suggested one stage/function under the chairmanship of seth sat paul where surinder mahey will also speak. the stage will be conducted by the nominee of the chairman of the trust i.e. seth sat paul. the money collected by surinder mahey's faction will be handed over o the trust/dham. it was the first step to bring about unity. surinder mahey was agreeable to these suggestions but there was no positive response from the other side rather they tried to down play my suggestions. where do i stand ? i am still unable to find the answer.
as regards my own position in coming forward. i am not interested in the current situation. i think my friends are not interested either. i myself, a year before, suggested that i may be invited to the meetings of the dham bodies where we may make speak and discuss but body invited me. i spoke in the functions about unity in three successive years. it is on record. nobody paid any heed. seth sat paul group did not consider fit to invite me, a small man of bootan mandi, to their stage. it is a sad state of affairs. if well meaning people like you bring this to notice of seth paul and others, i shall be grateful. i am open to sit and discuss with anybody.
Dear Sir,
ReplyDeleteI am great full that you took a time to reply. what i can say that i don't have single percent doubt about your efforts to bring together both factions. i have a full respect for you, i may not have met you personally, but every year father receive your new year card and mother use to put it on front, and use to tell us proudly that your father friend is Diplomat and always ask us to study hard so that we can be at a position like you.
yes its true Dham is losing because of this dispute. i have seen your stage on this shobhayatra, where you have invited seth satpal to speak. it was indeed a sincere effort from your side. yes it is true that most of the time, seth from both side give deaf ear to even good and sincere ideas. lets hope for best in near future
Thanks
Danesh
thanks danesh. god bless you. i am humbled further with your observations on me. i would keep doing my best. it appears you are the son of one of close friends in and around bootan mandi.
Deleteyou may know that i have decided to be in jalandhar. as my post retirement activity, i am launching next month my new social welfare venture ' jalandhar school of careers and opportunities ' in bootan mandi itself. i require support of each one of my friends and well wishers. my telephone and e-mail respectively are: 09988510940 and rc2345@yahoo.com
Thank you for informing us about the history of our Bootan Mandi. I am a friend of your brother Paramjit Mahay. I am very saddened to know that Bootan Mandi has been divided into two groups. I hope that they can unite soon and I request you to keep trying to accomplish this. I live in London with m family and proudly tell people that I am from Bootan Mandi. However, it is with regret that I must admit that the news of the seperation in Bootan Mandi really upsets me. I pray to Satguru Ravidass Ji that we can all be united and equal. From Hans Raj Mall and family. If you would like to contact me my email is: hansrajmall@hotmail.co.uk
ReplyDeletethanks hans raj. i am happy to listen from you. i shall do my best. people like you are the real strength of the community. thanks for giving the e-mail Id. my ID is: rc2345@yahoo.com we shall be in touch. love.
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