The Bits and Pieces – As I Please – 18
Withering Courtesies – An undesirable Trend –
Of late, it has been observed that basic courtesies and pleasantries are fast eroded from our day to life. It is not only unfortunate but is also most undesirable. My immediate provocation is that of abandoning the customary handshake by the Captains and their teams in the ongoing T20 World Cup matches between India and Pakistan. It alsohappened earlier too in Dubai. It is nothing else but a deplorable trend and a sheer unsporting spirit. Why is it happening is not understandable at all? If we, the cricketing authorities and the governments, are so concerned and sensitive, we should not play with Pakistan. Let the sporting spirit remain. We shall not be narrow-minded. Immediately after our independence in 1947, Pakistan invaded J & K but Jawaharlal Nehru shook hands with Liaquat Ali Khan soon after, General Ayub Khan did the mischief again in 1965 but Lal Bahadur Shastri shook the hands with him in Tashkent. Pakistan again tried to hoodwink India in 1971 and we bifurcated Pakistan and created Bangla Desh but again, Indira Gandhi shook hands with Zulfikar Ali Bhutto at Shimla. Pakistan imposed war on
us in Kargil in 1999 but Atal Bihari Vajpayee shook hands with General Parvez Mushrraf in Agra. Recent Operation Sandoor resulted in armistice with Pakistan in 2025 as both the sides felt to halt the hostilities and rightly so. PM Narendra Modi or any future dispensation will have to come to table with our hostile neighbor Pakistan sooner than later. There is no other way to go ahead as civilized countries and humane societies. Diplomacy will ultimately prevail and win. Why shall we take the game of cricket as hostage and set wrong and undesirable precedents. Let us shed this short-sighted approach.
दुश्मनी जम कर करो लेकिन ये गुंजाइश रहे
जब कभी हम दोस्त हो जाएँ तो शर्मिंदा न हों
Harby
Sangha – A Star of Punjabi Comedy
long before, he was living in our extended neighborhood in Deol Nagar but we could not meet each other personally though I saw him performing on a socio-religious platform in Bootan Mandi; nerve center of Dalit awakening sometime in 2011-12. Though I am not a movie buff yet, occasionally, I like to watch and enjoy Punjabi movies and that too comedies. Harby Sangha fits in here. These days he is one of the sought after comedian actor in the Punjabi films.
Harby (Harbilas) Sangha is a son of the soil of a village near Nakodar in Jalandhar, Sangha Jagir. He is an educated, Graduate from the DAV College Nakodar (I am also a DAVite from DAV College Jalandhar), actor introduced to the show business by a
renowned comedian himself, Gurpreet Ghuggi. A self-made successful actor, Harby Sangha has already worked in more than 50 films to his credit including hits like Carry on Jatta, Laavaan Phere, Maje Bistre, Doorbeen among others. Besides being a good comedian, Harby is a singer of good standing. While speaking at the Deol Nagar congregation, he sang one of his recent releases, Salaam Teri Soch Nu, a befitting tribute to Guru Ravidass which was recorded at Guru Ravidass Dham at Bootan Mandi in Jalandhar, my own native place –
My brief interaction with Harby Sangha was very pleasant. I
take his opportunity to wish him all the very best in the days to come, an
accomplished actor and singer of the community.
हँसी है दिल-लगी है क़हक़हे हैं; तुम्हारी अंजुमन का पूछना क्या
















